Online dating for gay men

27 Jul

Take mine, for example: And that, ladies and gentlemen, is my two-paragraph spiel that I have honed to online-dating poetry.

These two paragraphs describe everything that could ever need to be known about me. Well, no, of course they don’t; but my spiel does do a pretty good job of saying what I look like and what I am looking for. While exploring who you are and capturing it in such a condensed form can be daunting, there are two things you can easily avoid to make your profile more attractive.

No need to waste time on long surveys either: just a couple questions and the app will start working its magic for you.You have three tools at your disposal to catch the eye of Mr. First we have the guy who lists everything you must do to meet his standards. I list what makes me happy—neither as judgment nor ultimatum—as simple, joyous affirmation.The profile for Guy #1 may go something like this: I am an athletic jock looking for fun. You must practice ballet beneath the full moon when the new moon falls on a Tuesday… Guy #1 and Guy #2 may have nice photos and stats, but both speak in ultimatums and mandates. If we attract what we are and if we become what we think about, I’d like to manifest the gentleman who is simple and joyous.OKCupid It's a free site that connects LGBT singles.With a mass following, finding someone to grab a drink with at the end of the work week or to take to a wine tasting involves surfing profiles of members who live nearby with similar tastes.